What do you think about during the day?
It's amazing to me how much I think each day about "little things".
I enjoy and relish the simple joys in life.
- Relaxing with a great cup of coffee on the front porch
- Trying a new eye shadow or lipstick
- Snuggling with one of my kitties
- Reading one of my favorite blogs, Real Simple, Women's Running, or Food Network Magazine
- Cooking a nice dinner for B and me
- Treasure hunting at TJ Maxx or Home Goods
- A new "How I Met Your Mother" episode
I'm sure the list could go on and on. I enjoy these simple moments. A lot. I realize this isn't exactly "Lifestyles of the On-the-Go and Fabulous".
This is 30, people.
On the flip side, I let those annoying, nagging little things get the best of me, too.
- When my hair won't do what I want it to do
- When I'm making a recipe and I run out of eggs (or some crucial grocery item), requiring a special trip to the grocery store
- When I'm already pressed for time and I spill my coffee all over the place
- When I'm ready to go home but realize I'm almost out of gas and have to stop
- When I realize the heels on my pumps are clicky-clacking and I need to have them re-soled (as is the case right now...eesh)
- When B is on the computer instead of helping me with dishes or other task at home
Sadly, this list could go on and on, too. Yes, I am the QUEEN of first world problems!!! I'm not proud of it. These are not problems. Minor annoyances at best. There are people who have REAL problems. And no, I'm of course not immune to real problems either. I've had my share of hardships over the years. But these are not problems.
But what if - just go with me here - I focused my energy from little things to bigger, more important things?
Case in point:
As I've mentioned, over the last few weeks, I've gotten past my failed attempts to PR on a 5K, and I've rededicated myself to training. I'm focusing on training consistently and enjoying running again. I'm even considering running the CrossKnox 15K at the end of October. So far, it has been going great! I've increased to a more moderate, healthy level of calories to fuel my running. I've gotten new shoes to hopefully correct some heel pain I've been having. I've had more energy and felt better while running than I have in weeks!
This Saturday morning, I had a 5 mile run on my schedule. We were meeting our RunKNOX group, as well as a larger community training group. Despite the recent progress I've been making, I woke up feeling negative. Why?
- It was pouring the rain. Not just rain, monsoon. Some streets (on our route) flooded later that day. I expected an arc to float by.
- My headphones were broken. You expect me to run without music?!
- Despite the fact that my new shoes have great heel cushioning, they aren't broken in and already gave me a blister.
- I'm frustrated that I haven't been losing weight lately or gotten faster lately. I had this negative feeling of "Why am I even doing this?"
Yep, the little things have come into play. I was whiny and didn't even want to go that morning. B's response to me was simple.
Well, I'm going. If you want to go, come with me. If you don't, don't.
Leave it to B to give me straight talk. I'm an adult, and it's really not his job to convince me to do this.
Plus, he knows that the best way to kill a drama queen is to starve her need for attention. Touche, B.
Plus, he knows that the best way to kill a drama queen is to starve her need for attention. Touche, B.
And with that said, I quickly got ready and went with him.
And what happened?
Once I got there, it was fine! It was great to see my running friends and coaches. I accepted the fact that I would just have to have a great run despite the rain and no music. I felt energetic again and great while running, despite the rain. I found humor in the absurdity of being soaking wet while running. I ran a 2 mile easy warm-up, them 3 miles at a more moderate pace (11:20 min/mi) than I usually run. I finished the 5 miles under an hour, which is good for me!
I almost let minor annoyances stand in the way of a great run and a stepping stone to bigger running goals!
What other little things are standing in my way of achieving big things?
- What if I didn't procrastinate annoying errands and my life felt more together?
- Although I do budget, what if I spent less money on makeup, clothes, etc and saved for a vacation?
- What if I didn't let little things stress me out and I could mentally focus on my goals?
- What if I just put a teensy little bit of more effort into my workouts, blogging, relationships, etc?
I would probably be shocked at the results.
Since that run, I've made a point to really push myself closer to my limits in my workouts. I did extra speed intervals in my following run on Tuesday. During our core class yesterday, I got uber-competitive with myself and did exercises in the circuit faster and faster.
It got intense. I may have scared my workout partner. Sorry!
Maybe there's something to this idea of putting in just a little more effort!
Do the little things ever bother you? How do you work through them?
-Amy
Since that run, I've made a point to really push myself closer to my limits in my workouts. I did extra speed intervals in my following run on Tuesday. During our core class yesterday, I got uber-competitive with myself and did exercises in the circuit faster and faster.
It got intense. I may have scared my workout partner. Sorry!
Maybe there's something to this idea of putting in just a little more effort!
Do the little things ever bother you? How do you work through them?
-Amy
PS - As I shared on Facebook and Twitter last week, I'm trying a new topic/theme based format for my Fitness Friday posts. My goal is to provide fun, inspiration, and relevant information in a simpler way than an entire weekly run down of my workouts. Let me know what you think!
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